It all starts with a dream—the kind that lights you up inside, the kind that feels almost too big to say out loud. The kind of dream that makes your heartbeat a little faster, fills your mind with possibilities, and maybe even scares you just a little bit. But here’s the truth: you have permission to dream, and not just any dream—BIG, expansive, limitless dreams.

Unconditional love—it’s that dreamy, soul-expanding, heart-wide-open kind of love we all want to give. No strings, no conditions, no “I’ll love you unless you leave dishes in the sink.” But let’s be real—actually living it? Whole different ball game.

Ever felt like you should tone it down a little?

Like you shouldn’t talk about your success too much because it might make others uncomfortable?

Like maybe you should shrink yourself just a tiny bit so you don’t stand out too much?

If so, I’ve got a little PSA for you:

👉🏽 Your light is NOT meant to be dimmed. Not for anyone. Not for anything. Ever.

I was recently reminded of this by my own daughter. She told me she felt like she should hold back so that others wouldn’t feel uncomfortable. And my heart sank—because I know that feeling so well.

You know that little voice inside? The one that nudges you to take a different route home, whispers “Go for it” when you’re hesitating, or tells you someone’s energy just doesn’t feel right?

That’s your intuition—and here’s the cool part: the more you listen to it, the stronger it gets.

Think of it like a muscle. At first, it might feel faint, like a whisper in the background. But every time you notice those little nudges—when you follow them and things just work out—your trust in that voice grows.

You’ve probably heard the phrase “You’re looking at life through rose-colored glasses”—and usually, it’s not meant as a compliment. People say it as if choosing to see beauty, love, and possibility is somehow wrong—like you’re naïve, unrealistic, or just refusing to see the “real world.”

But here’s my question: Why is optimism seen as a flaw? Why is seeing the good in life something we have to defend?

Because personally, I think seeing life through rose-tinted glasses is a superpower.

It’s not about ignoring reality. It’s not about pretending everything is perfect. It’s about choosing your perspective. Choosing to see the love, the joy, the possibility—even in the messiness of life.

You know that feeling when a friend shares some exciting news, and you’re so genuinely happy for them? You hype them up, send all the emojis, maybe even do a little happy dance for them.

But when it comes to your own wins? Suddenly, it’s crickets.

Maybe you downplay it. Maybe you think, “It’s not that big of a deal.” Maybe you move the goalpost and tell yourself, “I’ll celebrate when I’ve done something bigger.”

Sound familiar? If so, you’re definitely not alone.

But here’s the thing: your wins matter. Every little step forward, every lesson learned, every moment of growth—it all deserves to be recognized. And more than that? It deserves to be shared.

Want to know a secret?

Well...

You’ve heard of reluctant super heroes...right? 

They are usually reluctant for different reasons.

Some have powers, but need to grow into them.  There is a maturity, trust and understanding of their abilities that need to take place.  

Some of them  keep their secrets, because they are scared of people judging and/or accepting them.  

Some do not want to be the butt of anyone's joke or made fun of in any way, just because they are different.  

Some are scared because they are trailblazers - the first of their kind in their communities.  They are the ones who will carve the path for others to follow...and they are uncertain if they should be followed.